Even in light of our reduced romance lately, I want to keep her emotional libido tank full.  Yesterday in the kitchen after Dawn and I got home, we took a moment and just hugged for about 3 minutes.  That's a long time to just stand in the middle of the kitchen and hug.  It was like a little mini vacation.  I felt great after - it took much of my stress away.  And I know she enjoyed it as well.  We kind of got lost in each other's arms for those three minutes.  It was very romantic and very good for us both emotionally and for our libidos.

I wondered if other couples do this kind of thing.  We do it about twice a day - sometimes for only 30 seconds, but it's nice just the same.  It allows us to connect on a deeper level than just a peck on the lips hello.  It allows her to smell my skin and me to take in the scent of her hair. 

This is a very good way to build that connection with her that:

1. Makes her feel loved
2. Makes her feel special
3. Keeps us connected emotionally
4. Improves her libido
5. Eliminates stress for both of us
   
   

Imagine accomplishing all that in just three minutes!  Pretty cool!

So, if you haven't done so in a while, ask your wife for a minute of her time.  Give her a nice long hug and get lost in her for a minute of two.  If she releases first, then go with it - you don't want her to feel constrained - if she doesn't, then great.  Either way, it will begin to build a romantic emotional connection between you.  And it will help to increase her libido - and fill her emotional libido tank.