When you're around the house hanging out, how do you look? Are you wearing a stained shirt with torn pj's? Is your hair a mess? Did you forget to shave? Do you smell bad? Did you forget to brush your teeth? It's amazing how many men would answer "yes" to 3 or more out of 5 of those questions. And they expect their wives to jump them. Ha!
You like your wife to look pretty, right? Well, she likes you to look handsome. Do you want you wife to be more passionate, increase her libido and want more sex? Then looking good can help a lot. You can find some comfortable things to wear around the house that are also nice. If you are a fashion dope like me, then you can either ask your wife what she'd like to see you in or you can get help elsewhere.
How do you get help elsewhere? I used to go to the store, find a stylish looking woman who works there and ask her what she thinks would look good for just bumming around the house. You can tell her you want to look better for your wife. She'll be all over it - and again, she and her co-workers will think you are quite a man for wanting to do this for your wife. "I wish my husband would do this" is a comment I've heard many times. It's a nice compliment.
Then you just need to take a few minutes when you wake up on your days off to wash up, shave and comb your hair. Put a little cologne on and your new bumming clothes. Your wife will take note. Shell be more likely to desire you if you look appealing to her. And she'll be more likely to follow your lead and begin looking better for you.
As far as how you dress when out of your home, ask your wife what she would like to see you in. If you don't have anything that works for her, then invite her to take you shopping. After she wakes from the shock of your invitation, go out shopping with her and let her pick some clothes for you. She'll love it! You may not like everything she picks, but be open. Don't worry about what the guys at work or your friends will say - who are you dressing to impress? Them? No. You don't sleep with them - you sleep with your wife. Of course there are limits - for me it's no bell bottoms. Lucky for me, my wife hates those. So be open but have some limits.
With you looking better than ever in the house and outside the house, your wife will pay a lot more attention to you and begin to really like seeing you more and more. That will develop into her wanting to see more and more of you if you get my drift.