Women talk a lot more than men.  If your wife asks you how your day was, the answer is likely to be: "fine."  That's it - if there was no police chase, no explosions, no winning lottery ticket and no one died, then there isn't much to report.

You know this: if you ask your wife about her day, you're in for an hour long description of everything that went down.  You will know what her co-workers said about her new shoes, the company org change, to the woman who didn't say "hi" back in the hall, to the cool new computer she just had installed.  If your wife is at home with the kids, you'll get even more detail about every potty event, every new word, and a play by play of all the good and the bad of the day.  Whew!

You've probably gotten really good at "uh-hu... yeah... mmm-hmmm..." and similar "keep alive" sounds and utterances.  We've all done it.  But later you'll hear something like: "What do you mean you didn't know?  I told you about Sally's kids, she has two and one's really sick."  The result - she knows you're not listening and she doesn't feel like you care.  That's not going to help you increase her passion and desire for you.

So - you want to improve your sex life?  Try this:  listen to her - really listen.  Make an effort.  This is an investment in your future, my friend, trust me.  Ask a couple of questions about someone in her day.  Preferably something positive or something about children.  Remember a couple of things.  Put them in your day planner if you have to.  Then a day or two later ask: "So - how is Sally's little girl, Becky?"  After the initial shock, your wife will love it.  And you will learn a lot about her in the process of talking with her and listening to her.  Pay attention.

She will feel listened to.  She will feel validated.  She will know you care.  She will feel more loved.  And her passion will grow and your sex life will improve.