Female libido is really sensitive. This weekend my wife and I were kissing in bed and everything was going well. However, at one point things changed. There was a connection that increased her desire from "I am doing this for you because I love you" to "I am doing this because I am so into you I can't stand it anymore and I want you." Making love to satisfy her husband is good, but her really wanting it is far better.
It was so amazing that the next day, she sent me an IM saying that she could not stop thinking about last night - how she felt a really deep connection and was thinking about me all day. When I got home, she found ways to get me away from the kids if only for a moment at a time to kiss passionately. It was amazing. It was exactly the kind of female libido enhancement that could make millions if it could be put in a bottle.
So what happened? What made the change? I thought about it and I know where the change was. The major turning point in her libido that night was when I said exactly what was in my heart and on my mind at the moment. It was the timing, honesty and sincerity of what I said that did it. I felt it and I said it without hesitation: "You're perfect for me." That is exactly what I was thinking and feeling - I was so happy that God matched me with such a wonderful woman and when I felt it I said it.
The timing was perfect because the emotion was honest and present. When I said those words, she sighed a loving sigh and her desire for me increased 10 fold. It was amazing. And the effects are still lasting three days later. She has been so affectionate and loving, it is just wonderful!
So - if you want to increase your wife's libido, open your heart a bit and when you feel happy to see her or have a positive realization about how much you love her - say it without hesitation. The timing will always be right because you will be acting from the heart. If she is not used to you saying such things, just explain that you are trying to be more open with your feelings to her. She'll love that!
Say the right thing - the thought or feeling that is in your heart - and you will discover how to increase female libido.