Ok, men: this may sound crazy to you.  This might sound like a scene from a chick flick.  But, if you think about it, women love chick flicks for a reason: they want that kind of romance; that kind of feeling.  This is so simple, it's ridiculous.  To her it is very romantic.  Does it matter if it seems romantic to you?  No - it only matters that she thinks it's romantic.

It is simple: brush her hair for her.  No, I'm not talking about just running a comb through her hair as she stands by the sink.  I'm talking about this: after you're both ready for bed, get out her favorite brush (watch which one she uses in the mornings for a hint) and ask her to sit in front of you on the bed.  "Why?" she will ask: because you want to brush her hair for her you will say.  She will probably be in shock or wonder what's up - just tell her that you want to try something new for her.  And be sure to tell her there are NO strings attached (and stick to that).  Then she can just relax and enjoy your touch.

Just sit behind her and run the brush through her hair from the crown of her head to the ends of her hair.  Never go over the same spot more than twice in a row.  She'll love it!  If you add following each brush stroke by running your fingers from under her hair to kind of lift it up, she'll really love it! 

Just sit behind her and listen to her when she tells you harder or softer.  You may be surprised at how long just sit there and love it (you can usually tell by the sighs of relaxation) - just be patient - after about 5 to 10 minutes, put the brush down and gently run your fingers through her hair from crown to ends once and giver her a kiss.  If she keeps kissing, great - if not, let her enjoy a relaxed night's sleep.  Remember: you're filling her emotional libido tank.  And this kind of romantic gesture makes a big deposit.

I did this the other night.  The result: she was so relaxed you'd think she just got back from a long vacation.  She turned and kissed me and well... it was a good night.