http://www.igniteherpassion.com/2009/05/biblical-marriage-a-mutually-satisfying-marriage/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=biblical-marriage-a-mutually-satisfying-marriage Helping Men Bring Back the Passion and Romance in Their Marriages Tue, 15 Nov 2011 02:52:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://www.igniteherpassion.com/2009/05/biblical-marriage-a-mutually-satisfying-marriage/#comment-1398 Chuck Tue, 26 Apr 2011 12:54:05 +0000 /post/Biblical-Marriage-Sexually-Satisfying-Marriage.aspx#comment-1398 You're doing the right thing, brother. Hold on. Over the past year, my wife also started saying sex is too painful, which made her dread it. During this time, she was very reluctant and felt like a failure for not being able to satisfy her husband with "real" sex, and she was sensitive about it and not willing to discuss it or try new things. I finally got her to agree to rubbing our bodies together with her on top using a side-to-side rocking motion (as if we were having sex, but without penetration) and thankfully this usually leads to orgasm for both of us. Maybe you can suggest this--that you love her and just want sexual intimacy with her without causing any pain or hurt to her and you want to satify her also. Also, I would suggest you get her a book to read to better understand your need & desire for sex: "7 Things He'll Never Tell You {But You Need to Know}" by Kevin Leman. This book may be the catalyst you need to for her to be willing to be more open to discuss this. Good luck and God bless. You’re doing the right thing, brother. Hold on. Over the past year, my wife also started saying sex is too painful, which made her dread it. During this time, she was very reluctant and felt like a failure for not being able to satisfy her husband with “real” sex, and she was sensitive about it and not willing to discuss it or try new things. I finally got her to agree to rubbing our bodies together with her on top using a side-to-side rocking motion (as if we were having sex, but without penetration) and thankfully this usually leads to orgasm for both of us. Maybe you can suggest this–that you love her and just want sexual intimacy with her without causing any pain or hurt to her and you want to satify her also. Also, I would suggest you get her a book to read to better understand your need & desire for sex: “7 Things He’ll Never Tell You {But You Need to Know}” by Kevin Leman. This book may be the catalyst you need to for her to be willing to be more open to discuss this.
Good luck and God bless.

]]> http://www.igniteherpassion.com/2009/05/biblical-marriage-a-mutually-satisfying-marriage/#comment-1033 Donald Laakso Mon, 23 Aug 2010 10:54:48 +0000 /post/Biblical-Marriage-Sexually-Satisfying-Marriage.aspx#comment-1033 My Wife and I have not had sex in 15 years, but I still love her and I have not been unfaithful to her though I have been tempted. With God's Help I have been able to resist temptation. (Our marriage is going on 31 years). She says sex hurts her and will not discuss it with me because she feels so guilty about it. I am 66 and she is almost 65, but I still have a need for sex though it does not have to be penetration. Our Sex used to be good and then it went away. She got so frustrated with me the other day and told me go to another woman if I needed that. I cannot do that because I believe firmly in my marriage vows. My wife has chronic kidney failure though we are not yet at the transplant stage yet. I know this can damage her libido. But is there any possibililty that her desire might return once she is feeling better again. Or will it be gone for good. Help me to hold her on and do the right thing for her and in the eyes of God. My Wife and I have not had sex in 15 years, but I still love her and I have not been unfaithful to her though I have been tempted. With God’s Help I have been able to resist temptation. (Our marriage is going on 31 years). She says sex hurts her and will not discuss it with me because she feels so guilty about it. I am 66 and she is almost 65, but I still have a need for sex though it does not have to be penetration. Our Sex used to be good and then it went away. She got so frustrated with me the other day and told me go to another woman if I needed that. I cannot do that because I believe firmly in my marriage vows. My wife has chronic kidney failure though we are not yet at the transplant stage yet. I know this can damage her libido. But is there any possibililty that her desire might return once she is feeling better again. Or will it be gone for good.
Help me to hold her on and do the right thing for her and in the eyes of God.

]]> http://www.igniteherpassion.com/2009/05/biblical-marriage-a-mutually-satisfying-marriage/#comment-8 ddddd Fri, 30 Jan 2009 09:48:25 +0000 /post/Biblical-Marriage-Sexually-Satisfying-Marriage.aspx#comment-8 I really like the way you think. I really like the way you think.

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