Comments on: Female Emotional Libido http://www.igniteherpassion.com/2009/01/female-emotional-libido/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=female-emotional-libido Helping Men Bring Back the Passion and Romance in Their Marriages Tue, 15 Nov 2011 02:52:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: admin http://www.igniteherpassion.com/2009/01/female-emotional-libido/#comment-1666 admin Tue, 15 Nov 2011 02:52:17 +0000 /post/Female-Emotional-Libido.aspx#comment-1666 It sounds like you could be feeling a lot of pressure to do so and also that you may have an issue with your self-esteem. You are not faulty! You need to unlearn what has made you feel broken. You need to learn to relax your mind so that you can let go. Of course, that is much easier said than done. You and your husband need the tools to pull your marriage out of this long rut! Please get help from a qualified sex therapist. My wife and I went to one. At first we were both thinking all these strange thoughts about what it would be like to see a sex tharapist. We also felt bad about having to go in the first place - but when you need help, you need to suck it up and go get help! After our first appointment, all our funky preconceived notions were dispelled. After a few weeks, our intimate relationship improved, and now, several years later, things are great! Give yourself time... take baby steps - but once you start, always move forward. If you are stressed about it, then you are going to have a hard time, which leads to more stress, and the vicious cycle continues. Break the cycle! Get help asap! We are all beautiful in God's eyes. See yourself through God's eyes for the beautiful woman you really are. You can do it - but you need guidance... It sounds like you could be feeling a lot of pressure to do so and also that you may have an issue with your self-esteem. You are not faulty! You need to unlearn what has made you feel broken. You need to learn to relax your mind so that you can let go. Of course, that is much easier said than done. You and your husband need the tools to pull your marriage out of this long rut! Please get help from a qualified sex therapist. My wife and I went to one. At first we were both thinking all these strange thoughts about what it would be like to see a sex tharapist. We also felt bad about having to go in the first place – but when you need help, you need to suck it up and go get help! After our first appointment, all our funky preconceived notions were dispelled. After a few weeks, our intimate relationship improved, and now, several years later, things are great! Give yourself time… take baby steps – but once you start, always move forward.

If you are stressed about it, then you are going to have a hard time, which leads to more stress, and the vicious cycle continues. Break the cycle! Get help asap!

We are all beautiful in God’s eyes. See yourself through God’s eyes for the beautiful woman you really are. You can do it – but you need guidance…

]]> By: paul f dsouza http://www.igniteherpassion.com/2009/01/female-emotional-libido/#comment-1659 paul f dsouza Sun, 06 Nov 2011 16:54:30 +0000 /post/Female-Emotional-Libido.aspx#comment-1659 iam not getting orgasm last 15years of married life my husband is not happy with me can i have an orgasm at this age of 40yrs i think i am faulty plz help iam not getting orgasm last 15years of married life
my husband is not happy with me can i have an orgasm at this age
of 40yrs

i think i am faulty

plz help

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